Let's Talk About #Confidence

Hello eagles, how is everybody doing? It’s mother eagle here. I hope you’re doing well. Well, welcome to all the new subscribers, welcome to all our top commenter. We have an active eagles’ community, so feel free to share your questions below. Feel free to participate too. We are always here and all we do is coaching and mentorship, so that we all have a better life. Anyway my topic for today is confidence.

I get this question all the time:

  • what can I do to up my confidence?
  • where does confidence come from?
  • where did you get your confidence?

And to get to understand where I’m coming from … (Welcome. Thanks for joining us!) …to understand where I’m coming from, I just have to give you a little background about me since most of you are new. Well I was born and raised in Uganda and I grew up a very shy girl. Actually, my nickname through school was Shy. I had that name through college. I was very shy. I always knew the answers to things. I always knew what to say, but I could never put up my hand, tried to raise my hand to say anything. Right? So that’s how shy I was.

Then something happened. I made a wonderful friend at my church and she put me into a leadership role. You know, she’s the kind of person who senses your abilities then gives you an opportunity. So she put me in a leadership role to lead all these people who are older than me. I was so nervous, right? So every day I would pray. I’d be like, “Oh God, give me something to say tomorrow when I’m talking to this group of people. And there were many right. And wise too.

Then every time I shared it so happened that they actually took what I was saying, and little slowly but surely the confidence started coming, the confidence that whatever I know in my heart that is true, it is true. And I can actually defend it with confidence and boldness, you know?

So how will you get confidence in your day to day life?

One. I think my, my biggest recommendation would be to trust in the little steps you take for yourself. If you hear your inner voice telling you, go left, take that step. When you discover it’s the right step, your confidence who get boosted. Every time you take a few good steps in the right direction, producing the right results, your confidence increases. Step two. Always journal and write down every time you have a success, a win, something good because those are things you go back and review and revise when the days are not so good and you don’t feel so confident.

You can go back to those days when you were confident and remember because confidence is like building blocks from one step to another, you build onto it until you get to that point where you feel unshakeable, immovable, you can stand on your word. You know what you know, just because you know it.

For example, if you are skilled at something or you were born to sing, or you are born a writer, or you were born to create some piece of art, whatever your talent is. If you were born to do that, as you’re doing it, you do it majestically, with boldness, and no one can say no to what you’re creating because it’s who you are. It’s your truth. And there is confidence in it.

For me, I was born a teacher. I can teach you anything and everything. And because of that, because of the confidence in the gift, I’m not afraid to say what I have to say. It’s who I am. It’s how I was born. How was designed. The interesting thing about that gift, where your confidence will come from. It’s usually hidden. As you’re growing up, maybe you were too loud and everybody’s like, “Keep quiet, keep quiet,” so you don’t speak loudly anymore.

It’s time to open up. Allow your gift to shine because in your gift is embedded, your confidence to do the things that most of the time when we are too shy and too broken is when we are walking on a path that is not ours. So find the path that is for you. Find the path that gives you that joy, gives you that creativity, gives you those creative moments. Whether you’re helping people, whether you’re creating something, whatever it is. If it’s your true path, confidence is built in it. Abundance is built in it. Creativity, new ideas, innovations are in built.

So I encourage you, walk on your true path, your confidence naturally arises because you know what you know. As always, this is Mother Eagle. I hope this helps you. Leave me your comments. Leave me your questions. If there are particular things you want to talk about. And visit mothereagle.net. Hi, Mutebi! Thank you for joining. Well, I better go. I will talk to you guys later. It’s morning here in LA. Bye.


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